On Saturday February 2, 2013 a dear
friend, brother, and mentor, Jim Chesser, finished his earthly race. I have
known Jim for 13 years. He is one of my earthy
heroes. I had scheduled a trip on my calendar
to go see him but passed just days before I made that trip. I am sad that I didn’t get to say goodbye. I have been processing his memory and legacy
over the last several days and two scriptures that come to mind are:
“Let a man
regard us in this manner, as servants of Christ and stewards of the mysteries
of God. In this case, moreover, it is
required of stewards that one be found trustworthy.” - 1 Corinthians 4:1-2
“Be imitators of
me, just as I also am of Christ.” -
1 Corinthians 11:1
Jim was a trustworthy servant of the
Lord and someone that I want to imitate.
This was evident in the fruit (John
15) he produced. In fact if you’ve
read my blogs or listen to me teach I mention John 15 a lot, one of the reasons is because that text is something
that Jim often discussed with me and encouraged me to live out when we talked
about Kingdom work and people. Jim was a constant student of the Word. He was always sharing with me where he was
studying in the Bible. He would show me
new things he had picked up from studying that he hadn’t picked up before. He would always tell me the things God was continually
teaching him in His word. Jim was
a professor and a minister for over 40 years and he was so humble. He always told me he was still learning even
though he had a wealth of knowledge and faith.
The other part of that fruit was leading
people to Jesus. Jim couldn’t breathe
without talking about Jesus. As I have been
processing the memory of him, I realized that Jim has his fingerprints all over
the Kingdom. The preacher that I serve
with was taught the Gospel message by Jim; I was mentored by Jim when I was
young in ministry and he even aided in me not leaving the ministry when I was
young. I realized that numerous friends of mine in the trenches of ministry
were either mentored by or lead to Jesus by Jim. Jim understood and lived Mark 8:34-38. Jim is someone
that I want to imitate.
Several years ago, I was able to travel
with Jim on a Wednesday night for seven weeks.
It is one of my favorite times in my life. Jim was traveling to a local congregation teaching
fundamentals of faith. He asked me if I
would tag along and assist him. I was honored.
What I didn’t know is that would be a teaching time for me. Jim shared common loves with me: the love of faith, family, food, and FSU
(Jim was the master of acrostics, acronyms, alliterations, and the like). During our rides and
down times, Jim would tell me stories.
Jim had a story for EVERY situation one could think of in a church
situation. You name a church scenario, positive
or negative, and Jim was in it. Jim gave
me so much wisdom in dealing with situations in ministry during these 7
weeks. He showed me how to and how not
to teach adults as well. He taught me
how to deal with angry people. He taught
me how to love the impossible to love. He
often during these 7 weeks taught me the importance of patience. I could go on and on about those 7
weeks.
For the last several years I would
bounce a lot of my sermons off of him and he would give me more insight and
help polish my messages more as well.
Jim also gave me wisdom as a husband and father too. Jim helped me years ago to be able to talk to
my son about me not being his biological father. Jim always gave me wisdom when it came to having
balance and giving my wife quality time.
Jim was one of the first people to come see my wife and I when we had
Addyson and even gave my wife flowers, something she has never forgotten. In fact, Addyson’s first gift came from Jim…a
FSU football/teddy bear that she proudly displays. Jim and I often had little meetings where we
spoke about family, our faith, football and FSU, and always about food. I will miss him. He left his fingerprints on my life. He is someone I need to imitate in my walk
with Christ.
As I continue to celebrate Jim, I am
reminded of the Ray Boltz song “Thank You” as it speaks to the man Jim was and
still is…although he liked this song he would tell me that that the sinner’s prayer lyrics need to change, which I agree, so I will
change it for Jim.
Thank You
By
Ray Boltz
I
dreamed I went to heaven
And
you were there with me
We
walked upon the streets of gold
Beside
the crystal sea
We
heard these angels singing
Then
someone called your name
You
turned and saw this young man
And
he was smiling as he came
And
he said friend you may not know me now
And
then he said, but wait
You
used to teach my Sunday School
When
I was only eight
And
every week you would say a prayer
Before
the class would start
And
one day when you prayed (Reworded for Jim)
I
decided to change my heart (Reworded for Jim)
CHORUS
Thank
you for giving to the Lord
I
am a life that was changed
Thank
you for giving to the Lord
I
am so glad you gave
Then
another man stood before you
And
said remember the time
A
missionary came to your church
And
his pictures made you cry
You
didn't have much money
But
you gave it anyway
Jesus
took the gift you gave
And
that's why I'm here today
One
by one they came
Far
as your eyes could see
Each
life somehow touched
By
your generosity
Little
things that you had done
Sacrifices
you made
They
were unnoticed on the earth
In
heaven now proclaimed
And
I know that up in heaven
You're
not supposed to cry
But
I am almost sure
There
were tears in your eyes
As
Jesus took your hand
And
you stood before the Lord
He
said, my child look around you
For
great is your reward
Thanks Jim, I
will always love you…see you later